This post isn’t about sympathy. I don’t want any of that thanks, or pity. I just want to give a special shout out to all the other people out there without their mums today and say I know how you feel. The month leading up to Mother’s Day is just reminder after reminder of how you haven’t got anyone to buy a gift for (hey, I’ve even done my own gift guide on here!) and how you won’t be doing anything special with your mum on Mother’s Day. And now it’s here, phew! It’ll all stop tomorrow!
I genuinely wish the happiest Mother’s Day to everyone who is lucky enough to still have their mum and to everyone who is a mum. But for those in the same boat as me, who feel a bit cheated and sad, you’re not alone and there are plenty of us out here. I hope your day isn’t too sad and that you focus on happy memories, times you shared with your mum and what you do have.
In the run-up to my wedding, I am feeling the lack of a mother figure more than ever. But I’m really lucky to have so many amazing people in my life who I can lean on for every kind of support I need. Besides, I’ll have an official mother in lawย soon too!
If you have friends who’ve lost their mums, drop them a text today and acknowledge it. It’ll mean a lot. And also think of any women you know who have lost a child or may be struggling to become a mum themselves; it can be a stressful time for them.
Extra special virtual hugs to my sis Kate and my friends Jen, Bec, Dani and Sarah xxx
Comments
Saint Gertrude says
Hi Jen – I’m just one little mother who admires you greatly and I’m sure I’m not the only one x
Jen Bishop says
Aw, thanks! ๐
Tessa - Down that Little Lane says
I have to share this print with you.. it was designed by our gorgeous Sherry for mothers day for the ones who have lost their mothers as she has also.. http://downthatlittlelane.com.au/may-and-belle/product/23773-happy-heaven
Jen Bishop says
That’s lovely Tessa, thanks for sharing ๐
Donna says
What a sweet post. I lost my mom too; she was my best friend. I was feeling very sad, but did some baking and took a walk beside the sea and felt a little bit closer to her. It’s nice to know I am not alone, so thank you.
Jen Bishop says
I’m sorry for your loss too Donna and thanks for your kind words x
Sarah B says
Hi Jen, I am lucky to have my mum but this post made me all teary. I suppose I just can’t imagine that loss. It’s is a hard time for a lot of people and yes, includes those who are unable to be a mother. I have never tried and know my time will be up soon, if not already, but still feel a little whistful on Mother’s Day. It will be so lovely for you to have a MIL very soon x
Jen Bishop says
Thanks Sarah, that’s really kind! ๐ x