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Tips for combining his ‘n hers interior tastes for a happy home and a happy relationship

By Jen Bishop โ€ข

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Or indeed his ‘n his or hers ‘n hers. We’re all inclusive here at Interiors Addict!

How to combine two people’s styles when moving in with your other half is something I’m often asked for advice on. I’m not sure I’m the best person to give it (or if my fiance would think so either). So I asked the girls at new Sydney wedding registry The Wedding Nest, for their top tips.

Their in-house interior stylist (former Belle interior design editor Imogen Naylor) works with their couples to collate a registry of gifts that will achieve a beautifully styled space true to both their individual styles.

Top tips

  1. Be involved together from the start! Even if one partner takes the lead, keep in mind that it’s best to consult the other partner regularly and โ€˜take them on the journeyโ€™ so they donโ€™t block all the hard work by the time itโ€™s well down the track.
  1. Plan! She might call this a mood board, he, a strategy, but either way the key here is agreeing on a vision. We invite couples to bring magazine cut-outs and to get pinning on Pinterest. Together they work through the collection to agree on a style or a selection of key pieces they both like that will suit their home.
  1. A beautiful home takes time. If your shared story is new, then look forward to collecting things together that over time will inspire and tell your unique love story.
  1. Stick with a fairly neutral colour palette for the surfaces and larger pieces. This will mean that your space is less likely to look too dated, and you can showcase your changing tastes through less expensive items. Add smaller punches of color with side chairs, cushions, pillows and rugs. Simple things like books and plants will do wonders for any room.
  1. Don’t forget you live in your space. When editing your items, donโ€™t always opt for style over comfort, and always think about how you’re going to use the piece in your space. It might look great on the shop floor or in a gorgeous French farmhouse, but will it look the same in your apartment living room?
  1. Each choose a few key anchor pieces. Remember, what makes a place feel homey is it being filled with pieces you absolutely love that have personal meaning to you. And most importantly, sharing it with the right someone.
  1. Give priority to pieces that mean something special to you. Maybe that’s an artwork customised to list all the cities you have shared a kiss in, or a vintage kantha throw from an Indian adventure
  1. Yield! Itโ€™s the first thing you learn in acting class when improvising: to always accept your fellow actorโ€™s idea before developing it in your own masterpiece. Same goes for the production that is styling your home โ€“ listen to your partner, understand what they like about a style or a piece and then work it into your own.
  1. Enlisting the help of an interior stylist is a great starting point. A stylist can work with you to help merge your pieces and define your personal style. In the long run, they can often save you money by giving advice on which pieces to invest in and creative yet inexpensive decorating tips.ย 

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May 30, 2013

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Appliance colour trends: They've certainly change Appliance colour trends:

They've certainly changed over the years. Remember when ALL fridges were white?! I remember the original BROWN wall oven in our 60s kitchen here pre-reno! I think the dishwasher was brown and beige (and it tripped the electrics every time we used it!) ๐Ÿ˜œ

What do you think of this new dark stainless steel option (pictured) from Westinghouse as seen in @dnaofdesign_'s latest reno? Yay or nay? 

What colour do you like your appliances?

See the rest of this home and kitchen and laundry design tips from the ex Blockheads on the blog now via link in bio.

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Listen up Sydneysiders, one of my favourite home stores @shack.furniture.homewares are having their annual warehouse sale this week, from Thursday until Saturday.

HUGE savings on furniture, homewares and decor with 30 to 80% off. Wowsers!

I'm a big fan of SHACK and can never leave one of their stores without a few styling goodies for my place! It's just too tempting!

While you're at the sale, mention Interiors Addict for an extra 10% off!

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Thursday 1st to Saturday 3rd June 2023, 9am to 4pm. Not online.

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A door to door continuous curved stone ledge in th A door to door continuous curved stone ledge in this bathroom is one of the cleverest designs we've seen in a while!

This mega ledge, made of Corian, even incorporates a sink, seamlessly.

Combined with venetian plaster on the walls, it's no wonder this Illawarra bathroom by @birdblackdesign feels like a day spa!

Come check it out via link bio.

Lead designer Stuart Gibson says: "One smooth curve, right around the room, from either side of the door opening. As it moves around, it creates a ledge for the bath: for bath oils, lotions, a book and a champagne glass. The ledge continues around and becomes the vanity, widening out to create a custom seamless basin."

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Catch the season finale of @sellinghousesaus last Catch the season finale of @sellinghousesaus last night?

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๐Ÿ˜ Not sure what's better: the custom mirror abo ๐Ÿ˜ Not sure what's better: the custom mirror above the fireplace in this Art Deco one-bedder or the wallpaper in the kitchen (swipe)?!

It's been a while since we featured an apartment makeover on IA. Would you like to see more apartment interiors? Head to the blog now to see more of this one. Via link in bio.

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Low tox and planet friendly laundry liquid (and sh Low tox and planet friendly laundry liquid (and sheets and soap and powder!). We have a great roundup of the best options on the blog today. 

A whole host of brands are offering eco-friendly, low tox alternatives to the more chemical-laden ones. Not only that, they often smell amazing, look good on your shelf and come in recycled or recyclable (or even better, both) packaging. 

Good for your skin, your clothes and the planet: whatโ€™s not to like?

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Play room goals!๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿป This is just one room fr Play room goals!๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿป

This is just one room from today's real house tour which I really love because in employing interior designer @issyandhcreative the owners weren't looking for a complete rip out and re-do but rather to work with what they had in their new suburban home (including a dated kitchen) and give it a largely cosmetic glow up with styling and new furniture (some of which was upcycled). 

The brief was to create a family friendly home. "They weren't looking for perfection but rather a warm and relaxing retreat for their busy young family." This playroom though? Pretty close to perfect! And the mum did the colour coded books herself. Love that๐Ÿ˜

Head over to the blog now via link in bio to see the rest of this home.

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All the heart eyes for this little setup ๐Ÿ˜ Hea All the heart eyes for this little setup ๐Ÿ˜

Head to the blog to shop this and two other gorgeous styled images from @greenhouseinteriors 

The stunning @mrsniceart artwork has already sold but the good news is, you can still get prints of it!

Styling by Aisha Chaudhry for Greenhouse Interiors, assisted by Nikki McGar, Kylie Harris, Rachael Blake and Max Green. Photography by Stephanie Rooney. 

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Bookworms need a cosy book nook! ๐Ÿ“– ๐Ÿ› Seb an Bookworms need a cosy book nook! ๐Ÿ“– ๐Ÿ›

Seb and Charlie had one of those kid size couches in their playroom but frankly, they'd outgrown it! I picked this Aussie made compact 2-seater Ruby sofa from @fantasticfurniture 

I'd usually go for grey to keep it neutral but as it's in a kid's room I went for this heather blue fabric to make it a little more fun while still classic. There's more than 50 fabric choices for Fantastic's Aussie made range so good luck choosing ๐Ÿ˜‚ 

I left the legs off to keep it below the windowsill. I'm super happy with the quality. It looks a lot more expensive than its $699 pricetag ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿป

Books, natural light and a cosy couch = happy boys! And let's not pretend they won't be watching the odd movie on there too ๐Ÿฟ because #keepingitreal

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  1. AvatarNat @ Dear Little House says

    May 30, 2013 at 8:33 am

    Some great points ๐Ÿ™‚ I have found that my husband has begun to trust my suggestions a bit more too, this took a long time! I have some whacky ideas but it comes together eventually ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. AvatarSam @ The Lifestyle Department says

    May 30, 2013 at 8:54 am

    Fantastic tips! I have several friends that could benefit from this advice greatly. A married couple buying a house together for the first time… another renovating. It’s hard to imagine these people disagreeing over floor tiles, but it’s happening. My philosophy on the matter has always been this: If you want to build a life with another person you have to accept it will look different from your past – but that’s half the joy.

  3. AvatarCamilla says

    May 30, 2013 at 9:19 am

    Oh is that why Im divorced now…Because I didnt yield?!!!
    All works out for the best!! ๐Ÿ™‚

  4. AvatarSally says

    May 30, 2013 at 2:08 pm

    Have you seen Secrets from a Stylist hosted by Emily Henderson? She does this brilliant ‘style diagnostic’ to decipher the style of each person in a couple, then makes inspired suggestions on how to combine, eg Mantique Minimalism, Industrial Kitsch, Mad Men Bohemian.

  5. AvatarRachel @ Reality Chick says

    June 5, 2013 at 10:47 am

    Great tips! My mum is a former art teacher and has always made all decorating decisions; my dad just enjoys the results (which are stunning). Ahh the freedom that woman has! I am envious because it’s not so in my marriage… my hubby wants to make joint decorating decisions ALL the time. He has good taste so it’s not as bad as I make out, and sometimes I have to concede that his choices are better than mine! For eg, to save arguments I agreed on black microsuede for the King lounge we got when my heart was totally set on cream cord (to brighten up the room etc). Anyway, with all the stuff that’s been spilled on our couch in the past four years, I have to admit cream cord would’ve been a freaking nightmare ๐Ÿ™‚

    • AvatarJen Bishop says

      June 8, 2013 at 9:39 am

      Don’t you just hate it when they’re right?! ๐Ÿ˜‰ Men do tend to be more practical I have to admit!

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